Alan Roger Currie
Book Author / Public Speaker / Dating Coach / Talk Radio & Podcast Host
Welcome to the new home of The Mode One Approach. I appreciate you taking the time to visit and find out how I may be of assistance to you, as far as helping you enhance and improve your love life, sex life, and overall social life.
I grew up in a middle-class, two-parent home in Gary, Indiana, and later graduated with a Bachelor of Arts degree in Economics with a minor in Psychology and Theatre & Drama. My original ambition was to pursue a career in the Entertainment Industry, and one day become a filmmaker and feature-film screenwriter, which is what led me to move to Los Angeles in May 1994.
Beginning with the end of my senior year in high school, I experienced three epiphanies that forever altered my beliefs and attitudes regarding the general nature of male-female relationship dynamics and the pursuit of women’s romantic and sexual companionship.
Epiphany #1: Understanding the Concept of Sexual Duplicity
Prior to my freshman year in college, I operated under the assumption that 90% of the women in society were ‘prudish good girl’ types, and maybe 10% of them were kinky and polyamorous (i.e., down to engage in ‘casual’ sex with men) types. I had no idea that many women who were really kinky and open to the idea of engaging in one or more episodes of short-term non-monogamous ‘casual’ sex with men would ‘pretend’ to behave like they were extremely prudish and highly monogamy-oriented in their early interactions with men. Once I understood this aspect of many women’s behavior, it caused a major paradigm shift in my general way of thinking and my behavior toward women. I refer to these women in my books as Wholesome Pretenders.
Epiphany #2: Understanding that being ‘likeable’ is not synonymous with being romantically and/or sexually desirable in the eyes of a woman
The second major epiphany took place during my last two years in college at Indiana University in Bloomington, Indiana during the 1980s. Like many men, I used to naively believe that if a woman ‘liked’ a man, and expressed a ‘favorable opinion’ of a man to her friends and acquaintances, that this meant that she also was open to the idea of dating that man and engaging in sexual relations with that man. On the flip side, I used to think that if a man exhibited behavior that provoked a woman to harshly criticize him, insult him, and/or express negative and unfavorable comments about him – to his face or behind his back – that this meant that this woman would never, ever date that guy or agree to have sex with that guy. As time went on, I realized that both of my naïve assumptions about women were totally invalid. This epiphany was the primary motivation behind me writing and publishing my very first eBook and paperback, Mode One: Let the Women Know What You’re REALLY Thinking.
Epiphany #3: Understanding that some women will ‘pretend’ to have a romantic or sexual interest toward a man, but in reality these savvy manipulators just want to take advantage of horny and/or lonely men for their own self-serving objectives
The third and final major epiphany I experienced did not happen until the 1990s. Slowly, but surely, after hundreds of social interactions and formal ‘dates’ with women, I came to the realization that there are many women who will not immediately and/or straightforwardly reject the men who they have no romantic or sexual interest in whatsoever. There are a number of women who will spend days, weeks, or months misleading a man, toying with his ego and emotions, and exploiting his strong and even desperate desire to have sex with these women as a manipulative ‘carrot-on-a-stick’ to motivate men to invest a significant amount of their free time flattering women, entertaining women, and performing financial and non-financial favors for women. I refer to these women in my books as Manipulative Timewasters.
The advice I offer to men in my three audio books, my three paperbacks, and my six eBooks are representative of the collective sum of all of my successes with women as well as my moments of disappointment and frustration with women related to those three epiphanies.
To read more about me and my background, you can visit my Wikipedia.org page.
After reading one or more of my eBooks and/or paperbacks, or after listening to one or more of my audio books, if you decide that you would like to receive an Email consultation from me, a Skype or telephone consultation from me, or engage in a One-on-One / Face-to-Face Dating Coaching Session with me, I will direct you to this page.
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