What is a Wholesome Pretender?
This is a woman who is very open to the idea of connecting with a male companion within the context of Relationship Type B (i.e., short-term and/or non-monogamous ‘casual’ sex), but she will initially, temporarily, or indefinitely give a man the very misleading impression that she is only interested in Relationship Type A (i.e., a purely platonic friendship indefinitely) or Type C (i.e., a long-term monogamous relationship that has a high potential of leading to marriage). Most men in society are not very good when it comes to communicating their true desires and interests to Wholesome Pretender types. Consequently, many men lose out on opportunities to engage in one or more episodes of short-term and/or non-monogamous sex with women of interest.
What is a Manipulative Timewaster?
This is a woman who will initially, temporarily, or indefinitely will give a man the misleading impression that she is open to the idea of very gradually transitioning into Relationship Type C – or even Relationship Type B – when in reality, this woman is only looking to recruit a man who is very flattering and accommodating, has a very funny, witty, and entertaining personality, and will potentially spoil her with financial and non-financial favors exclusively within the context of Relationship Type A. Most men in society are not very good when it comes to communicating their true desires and interests to Manipulative Timewaster types. Consequently, many men end up investing a significant amount of time, effort, and money pursuing the romantic or sexual companionship of women who have no desire other than to ‘use’ men for their own self-serving objectives.
IS IT ONLY WOMEN WHO ENGAGE IN
MISLEADING and MANIPULATIVE ‘HEAD GAMES’ WITH MEN?
Why, of course not.
The 3 Types of Misleading & Manipulative MEN
Pickup Artists and Other Similar Types
Very few men who are primarily interested in engaging in Relationship Type B (casual sex) with a woman have the bold courage to communicate their sexual desires, interests, and intentions to women in an upfront, specific, straightforwardly honest manner. What many men are taught to do by many conventional ‘Pickup Artist’ (PUA) types is to initially, temporarily, or indefinitely give a woman the impression that his primary interest is Relationship Type C (a long-term, emotionally profound, monogamous romantic relationship), but then, once that woman enthusiastically agrees to have sex with him, that man will then slowly but surely reveal to the woman that he has no desire for any type of relationship that is long-term or monogamous. The question is, why did this man wait until after he had sex with the woman to communicate that to her?
Men who ‘FunClub’ with women
What does it mean to FunClub with a woman? FunClubbing represents anytime a man is really interested in Relationship Type B or Type C, but he indefinitely gives women the very misleading impression that he is totally content with remaining in a Relationship Type A (purely platonic friends) with them. This type of man is just as bad, if not worse, than your typical Pickup Artist type. Men in this category are total verbal cowards with women. At some point in the near or distant future, these men are going to attempt to make some sort of sexual advance on one or more of their ‘female friends,’ and animosity and drama is going to surely ensue. Reality check for the ladies: No man who finds you physically attractive and sexually appealing is ever going to be indefinitely content with remaining ‘just friends’ with you.
Men who are Blatant Cheaters and Adulterers
Arguably the worst of the three groups of misleading and manipulative men are those who are already involved in a Relationship Type C with a wife, a fiancée, or a long-term girlfriend, but when they meet a woman who they would like to engage in Relationship Type B with, they blatantly lie to that woman and give her the misleading impression that they are single and totally unattached. This is representative of a man who wants to “have his cake and eat it too.” [Note: Men who are involved in ‘open marriages’ and other forms of polyamorous romantic relationships are excluded from this category]
How can I learn to connect with women romantically
and/or sexually without lying to them, misleading them,
or toying with their emotions?
Learn the overall background of dating and relationships, and marriage and monogamy, and why many men have lost interest in strictly monogamous long-term relationships and marriage in the 21st Century: Listen to The Beta Male Revolution: Why Many Men Have Totally Lost Interest in Marriage in Today’s Society (click photo image below for more info)
Learn how to eliminate invalid attitudes and beliefs, conquer the fear of being rejected by women as well as the fear of receiving criticisms, insults, and negative reactions in general from women, and neutralize all of your dating-related egotistical insecurities so that it will open up the door for you to communicate your romantic and/or sexual desires, interests and intentions to women in a more highly self-assured, upfront, specific, and straightforwardly honest manner: Listen to Mode One: Let the Women Know What You’re REALLY Thinking (click photo image below for more info)
Learn how to communicate with women in a manner that allows you to quickly and effectively identify if a woman is a Wholesome Pretender type: Listen to Oooooh . . . Say it Again: Mastering the Fine Art of Verbal Seduction and Aural SexThinking (click photo image below for more info)
Learn how to communicate with women in a manner that allows you to quickly and effectively identify if a woman is a Manipulative Timewaster type: Listen to The Possibility of Sex: How Naïve and Lustful Men are Manipulated by Women Regularly (click photo image below for more info)